Ephesians Week 6

 Ephesians 5   5  1  Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children   2  and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. 3  But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people.   4  Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving.   5  For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a person is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. [ a ]   6  Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient.   7  Therefore do not be partners with them. 8  For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light   9  (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth)   10  a

Train up a child and when they are old... ..so when are they finally old?

Proverbs 22:6 (New King James Version) 6 Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.


So I have had the last week and 1/2 wondering..when, just when are they going to start staying on the path we have trained them up in? LOL.. As you know, my 7 year old (John-Michael) has a tumor by his spine and has a cyst inside his spinal cord. Dr. Boydston, his neurosurgeon, said surgery is very risky, so we are just watching it for now. He said, "No wrestling, no rough housing, no big roller coasters, etc". Well, I also have a crazy, impulsive, talkative, Russian-born daughter (who is just like me/ her mama)..and well, she did a crazy, impulsive thing last week and slapped John- Michael so hard on his back that it left marks on his back and him on the ground. She was playing tag, and impulsively… tagged him too hard. We have had the talk with Madeline ( my 10 year old daughter) and Noah (my 12 year old son) about the great need to be gentle with John-Michael. Putting it in action is difficult for them. Yesterday, John-Michael decided it would be a great idea to burp in Noah’s face during lunch and Noah…impulsively… pushed him down..onto the hard wood floors, onto an air vent).. John-Michael landed..you guessed it…on his back..right on that tumor. I was so mad, that I knew the best thing I could do was..send Noah to his room and call my husband to rescue both of us. LOL..

This morning, John-Michael told my daughter that he was going to pass gas on her…and closed her in a room with him… He obviously knows this is not ok behavior, but I understand it is little boy behavior. I talked to him and told him how disrespectful it was and made him go sit in the bathroom for a few minutes … that potty language/ behavior belongs there. Whew…I am tired ..already…so…when are they old?









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  1. Unfortunately, like us, our kids are not perfect and are constantly being transformed into the image of Christ!

    I'm sorry your kids have "been kids" in ways that are dangerous for John-Michael. I hope you and your husband can come up with some good "ground rules" soon---and that the kids will follow them!

    Hang in there. You're not alone!

    ~Jennifer

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  2. Thank you for the encouragement, Jennifer! You are right... None of us will be without sin until we are glorified.. :)

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