Lessons learned the first 50 years

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I hit a milestone. I turned 50 years old. I am thankful that I don't feel 50.   I am thankful for things God has taught me throughout those 50 years. .  I have learned that God loves mercy and when I feel a sense that justice needs to happen over mercy, all I need to do is remember that I am thankful for when God gives me mercy instead of a just punishment.   (Micah 6:8 8 He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.) ( Luke 6: 36  Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful. ) I have learned that hurt people end up hurting people.   When I am able to see that I didn't hurt them but I am bearing the results of that persons hurt inflicted by other people, it helps me forgive whatever hurt they pushed onto me and move on.  (Romans 12 : 18  If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. )  I have learned that anyone who thinks they have God

What does he know that I don't know...

This video shows three patient, calm  dogs...waiting for their dinner.  They show self-control ... sitting.... as they wait for him to say the keyword, Amen.   I am wondering what the trainer's secret is..  On days like today.... I could use it. LOL...  I think Proverbs 19:3 is a bit of wisdom we all could use... It says- " A man's own folly ruins his life, yet his heart rages against the LORD".  We do stupid stuff, we make a big mess...then, we get mad at God for letting us do it.  LOL..... Isn't it the truth?    For me, maybe not you...,  but for me ... parenting is HARD!  This is pretty odd because I can easily control a classroom of 25 kids, but parent my own 3 kids... THAT's HARD!   I know why.  It is that I am not going for crowd control.... but for their hearts.  I want them to show contentment.  I want them to show gratitude.  I want them to show joy, peace, patience, kindness, and self-control.    Today, the lack of gratitude really got to me.  I made my kids watch a 15 minute video of  children who didn't have enough food or clean water.... They were amazed that they also didn't have Wii games, Legos, bikes, scooters, and other non-essentials.   I hope it left an impression.... we didn't do a certain good thing to have enough to eat.  ..and the people who do not have enough to eat...they did NO bad thing to deserve not having enough.  I am trying to teach my children that "To whom Much is given, much is required"... not for salvation...but instead...because of HIS grace and Mercy..   His grace and Mercy should be our motivators....our easy reason to be content.  Thankfully, my husband supports me as I try to homeschool and parent (while he is at work) .  He is taking our child that has been the most rebellious this week... to his office tomorrow to do school work at his desk............the entire day.   I hope the combination of boredom and pen and  paper schoolwork will do a good work in this child's heart....... and Until I find this man's secret (with his pups)...I will just keep pressing forward... .aiming for the heart (theirs and mine)......

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