Lessons learned the first 50 years

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I hit a milestone. I turned 50 years old. I am thankful that I don't feel 50.   I am thankful for things God has taught me throughout those 50 years. .  I have learned that God loves mercy and when I feel a sense that justice needs to happen over mercy, all I need to do is remember that I am thankful for when God gives me mercy instead of a just punishment.   (Micah 6:8 8 He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.) ( Luke 6: 36  Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful. ) I have learned that hurt people end up hurting people.   When I am able to see that I didn't hurt them but I am bearing the results of that persons hurt inflicted by other people, it helps me forgive whatever hurt they pushed onto me and move on.  (Romans 12 : 18  If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. )  I have learned that anyone who thinks they have God

In praise of a good husband

Oh, I have needed Russell this week.  I have been saddened  and heart heavy for various friends..various situations (divorce, cancer, broken relationships, broken bodies, sick friends, etc).  It is hard for me to let go of it, meaning...if you tell me something...my heart breaks with you.  ...to an extent that I sometimes can't sleep ..can't think about anything else, because I want to help you, solve your problems.   I know I am not God, but too often I try to "OVER stretch" ...over seek..what I can do...taking on friends' problems as my own.   (Character flaw I have had for as long as I can remember).

Add to that ..one of my own  children who has during the school day as I try to homeschool:  thrown books down, stomped feet, slammed hands, refused to do lessons, said work was completed (wasn't)..etc..  After two days of that, I felt hopeless.   Then, my hero comes in.  He says he will take this child (if you realllllly know me..you know which child)... to his office and have them do work there.

Hopefully this will be a REBOOT for both of us.  Hopefully the child will see how much help and LOVE is given.  ..and hopefully I can let go off a little stress...and be ready to go again... with all 3 in a day or two...
So..thank you, Russell!  thank you for supporting me!  Thank you for not leaving me hanging. Thank you for being in this with me (parenting...even though you work full time and I only work part time)... Thank you for being concerned about me...and about the kids. LOL...
Thank you for loving me well! 

C.S. Lewis Friendship Quotes
“Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art… It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival.”

1 Corinthians 13:4–8aLove is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails

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