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Elaine and Ray |
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Russell and Rachel |
The picture above is of my mom and dad when they were first married. Now in 2013, they are celebrating 50 years of marriage this year. They were not believers at the time when they got married, but God..even then... had them model devotion and commitment to me and my two sisters. After 23 years of marriage, I want a full, Christ filled marriage for all of my family and friends. I see the importance of the younger women learning from the older women.
Titus 2 says "Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be
slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can
train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be
self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to
their husbands, so that no one will malign the Word of God." Titus 2:3-5
We need to know that certain struggles are normal. We need to know how to persevere through certain trials and problems that are bound to happen at some point. We also need to know the fullness that God intended us to have in our marriage. We need to know that Marriage is a great blessing...and a healthy, loving marriage is a wonderful thing to pass on to your children. We need to know what that looks like and what it doesn't look like. Older women, prayerfully consider a younger woman that you can mentor,,, and younger women, prayerfully look for an older woman that you can ask to help you as you strive to glorify God and fulfill His heart for our marriages.... If you are in the middle of no where, and feel like a mentor is impossible, get in God's word and get wisdom from other Godly people ..via books and the internet. One good start is Linda Dillow.
http://www.amazon.com/Whats-Like-Married-Dangerous-Questions/dp/1434700569 You can find her book, What's It Like to Be Married to Me?: And Other Dangerous
Questions, at the link above.
Much love,
Rachel
What great photos! That looks like a really good book to read as well! I always appreciate your encouraging words!
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