Lessons learned the first 50 years

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I hit a milestone. I turned 50 years old. I am thankful that I don't feel 50.   I am thankful for things God has taught me throughout those 50 years. .  I have learned that God loves mercy and when I feel a sense that justice needs to happen over mercy, all I need to do is remember that I am thankful for when God gives me mercy instead of a just punishment.   (Micah 6:8 8 He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.) ( Luke 6: 36  Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful. ) I have learned that hurt people end up hurting people.   When I am able to see that I didn't hurt them but I am bearing the results of that persons hurt inflicted by other people, it helps me forgive whatever hurt they pushed onto me and move on.  (Romans 12 : 18  If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. )  I have learned that anyone who thinks they have God

New Year's Resolution... Things to shoot for

Happy New Year!  2015 is here!   I have a few resolutions for the new year, things to shoot for to make an even better 2015.  I want to  practice  an attitude of gratitude and make a conscious effort to find things to thank God for.  None of us are going to have perfect lives this side of Heaven, but we can still be to be thankful.   I am going to focus on the good and let go of the bad.

I am not going to compare myself to others.  God made me ... He knit together my "in most being" ... my personality.  I have to be me. .. and not worry that I am not as neat and organized as other moms, that I am not as pretty as another, that I am not as smart as another, etc.     Comparison is a thief of joy because comparison tells us that we have been cheated.  However, we are not walking in their shoes.  We really do not have a clear picture of what their struggles are... even if we are facebook friends with them.   I have no idea what their lives actually look like, behind closed doors.

I eat relatively healthy meals, but since I broke my leg a couple of years ago, I haven't stayed as active as I was before.  I am going to  get more exercise. I am going to spend more time painting and for the first time ever, I am going to take painting lessons.   

I am going to continue to date my husband of 25 years.  I am going to assume the best of him and give him lots of grace, just like I hope he gives me.  My marriage is my most intimate earthly relationship, so when it’s not strong, my joy suffers.  When we are o.k, I am o.k. 
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I can't  control the things that happen to me in 2015, but I can control how I react. Will I choose thanksgiving or anger,   joy or bitterness, kindness or cruelty, or happiness or discontentment. l whether we choose joy or bitterness, thanksgiving or anger, happiness or discontentment?  

I will continue to  study His word, seeking to be grounded in His word.  Only then, can I make sure that I am believing His truth and make sure that no lies take a foothold in my life.  God has shown me that joy can be had




even  when hurts happen.  

Here's to a wonderful 2015. 

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